Dear Daughters,
I received a potted amaryllis bulb at the end of November from Aunt Rhonda. Over the years I have grown several with great success and I was eagerly expecting the same. I followed all the directions, put it near a window and watered it faithfully for weeks expecting to see some lush green growth topped with a beautiful flower by Christmas. Day after day, week after week it looked the same, like a dead bulb in dirt. After 4 weeks I was just about ready to toss the whole pot in the trash and be done with it. Then one day I saw a slight white shoot peeking out the top and celebrated that perhaps all my watering and care was not in vain.
Now, finally in mid-February there are some gorgeous magenta blooms – just as I had hoped.
Because I was impatient, I just about tossed out what was to become a lovely flower, but because of that slightly ambiguous word – hope – I faithfully continued to water and keep it in the light so maybe, just maybe it would grow like I had expected.
And then I got thinking about situations for which I have been praying for years. The healing of a relationship, the growth of a marriage, the softening of hearts, and the healing of a broken body. I know Jesus hears my prayers and is working things out for my good but sometimes I get frustrated and think,
Why should I care anymore?
What good is it doing?
Will anything ever change?
Have you ever had those thoughts, when the prayers you pray seem to be hitting the ceiling and dropping down again? It’s hard to keep on loving, keep on showing up, keep on doing good. In fact, there’s a proverb written over 3,000 years ago stating,
Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.
Proverbs 13:12
Obviously waiting over three weeks for an amaryllis to bloom is much different than waiting years for something you’re hoping for. I think of those women who have waited for years to have a baby, suffering through months of infertility and disappointment. Or those who have suffered sexual abuse and have waited for months, perhaps years, to see a judge convict an abuser. Sometimes it seems as if God is on mute as we pray for the people we love year after year, hoping that justice will be served.
I ponder the story of Abraham and Sarah who were promised a child from God and waited for 25 years before it came to be. King David, who after he was anointed King, had to wait another 10 years running and hiding in caves in order to keep from King Saul’s vengeance. Good things do happen, promises are kept but sometimes it’s hard to keep on going, every day putting one foot in front of another when we repeatedly hear the voices whispering in our heads,
Nothing is ever going to change, it will be this way forever...
Certainly it feels like it at times, but the truth is – life is changing every day. Just as imperceptibly as a plant grows – we cannot see it day by day – but during months and years they do grow. God is listening, working and at just the right time the beautiful bloom will appear.
Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap…Let us not lose heart in doing good,
for in due time, we will reap if we do not grow weary.
Galatians 6:7,9
Did you know that bamboo plants grow as many as 35 inches a day! And on the opposite extreme there is the Tamarisk tree, native to the drier climates of Eurasia and Africa, which only grows about 1 inch per day. Why? Because that’s the way God, in His wisdom, created them. Different species require different growing times and different maturation dates.
…And there is an appointed time for every event under Heaven.
A time to give birth and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted…
Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
Have good courage and confidence because God is doing a good work, and He will bring it to completion.
I love the following prayer from Tim Keller:
Lord, I confess I do not understand your timing. If I were in charge of history and my life I would have arranged things differently.
But I cannot see the whole picture, I cannot see from beginning to end, and so I wait for you in obedience and prayer. Amen.
Love, Mom
What a beautiful analogy !
Thanks, but it showed me how impatient I can be sometimes!
Once again you have triggered my mind to think of how I have waited for prayers to be answered. In my case my prayers were constantly being answered as I waited. Not always the way I would have liked. But Gods plan was so much better. Although I do not have a husband, I am so much more confident in my God. My journey was a difficult and heartbreaking discovery of who i was, who I am now. And a long the way I learned to totally release to God my past and the future he has yet to fulfill. I have learned through it all that it’s best to give God his time or you will be in misery trying to move it forward and fix it yourself. Who needs a husband when you have a God that will constantly care for you. Resting in the arms of Jesus! Love, Donna
Oh Donna, what a beautiful testimony of how God always provides – even in the midst of heartache. Thank you for sharing how He has made you whole and confident, even though you have no earthly husband. His timing is always good, neither early nor late.